“Do as the society says” is bad advice.

“Be yourself” is incomplete advice.

Today, I feel like being a jerk. Should I be myself? No, I shouldn’t.

The best advice that I know is –

  1. Be aware of all the drama that goes in your mind.
  2. Then pick up the stuff that can add value to yourself and to others.
  3. Do that.

It’s not about doing what the others say. It’s not about doing what your impulse says.

It’s about being aware and choosing.